♥ A Nice Thought ♥

Learn to Share.

2008-11-16T18:58:00.000+08:00

Life isn't about trying to be an expert in everything.
It's about being an expert in one thing
and sharing it to others.

Always enjoy.

2008-11-15T19:04:00.001+08:00

Beginnings are scary..
Endings are sad..
And the middle?
Well, it's what counts the most..
So do not dwell on a dismal beginning
or devote yourself on aiming for a happy ending..
because you might miss the best part of the whole story..
Bottom Line:
Enjoy while you're still in the middle..
We can't change how it began,
moreover we can't predict how it will end.

Go Out and Be Happy.

2008-11-14T18:53:00.000+08:00

You won't fully enjoy a swing
unless you raise your feet from the ground.
You won't fully enjoy a boat ride
unless you remove the rope's knot from the river bank.
Lesson: Never ever limit yourself when it comes to happiness,
learn how to let go and take risk.
Life is much beautiful outside the comfort zone.

Let go.

2008-11-13T18:52:00.000+08:00

Let go of what kills you..
and hold on to what keeps you breathing..

Hug Me.

2008-11-12T18:50:00.000+08:00

If you can't find the right words for a certain situation,
just give that person a hug.
Words have the potential to confuse,
but hugs never lie.

Rain.

2008-11-11T18:48:00.000+08:00

It's amazing how RAIN symbolizes fearless LOVE.
Rain just keeps on falling
not KNOWING where it would land.
Yet it still falls.

One person.

2008-11-10T18:42:00.000+08:00

Cherish the person who knows and understands you completely,
the one who gets how you feel and accepts who you are..
'Cause in the event that you lose yourself,
that person is the one who knows how to find you..

Twists and Turns.

2008-11-09T18:40:00.001+08:00

Love is like a rubics cube.
There are innumerable wrong twists and turns
but when you get it right
it looks perfect no matter
which side you look at.

Love Fades.

2008-11-07T11:53:00.000+08:00

Never be assured that love is enough to make someone stay or come back to you..
because when pain strikes the heart,
love fades no matter how great it was.

Solutions.

2008-11-06T11:52:00.000+08:00

If you have something you want to do in life,
don't think about the problems,
think about the ways to get it done.

More or Less?

2008-11-05T11:47:00.000+08:00

You are aware that you are less than what some people prefer you to be
but most people are unaware that you are so much more than what they see.

Choose and Love.

2008-11-04T11:46:00.000+08:00

It doesn't matter where you go in life,
or what you acquire,
it's who you have beside you
that really matters.
"Choose your love and then,
love your choice."

Idiot.

2008-11-03T11:44:00.000+08:00

Never argue with an idiot.
They drag you down to their level
and then beat you with experience.

Fight to Heal.

2008-11-02T11:39:00.002+08:00

When you're tired of the world,
when times feel like a living hell,
when it felt like we have failed and fallen short of expectations,
It doesn't hurt to believe in a better day.
Cause even wounds no matter how deep,
will fight to heal.
And eventually, they will.

Love Measurement.

2008-11-01T21:40:00.002+08:00

The measure of love is when you love without measure.
In life there are very rare chances
that you'll meet the person you love
and loves you in return.
So once you have it, don't ever let go,
that chance might never come your way again.

Up To You.

2008-10-31T19:25:00.000+08:00

The starting point of maturity is the realization that
"no one is coming to the rescue,"
everything you are and everything you will be
is entirely up to you.

The Art of Timing.

2008-10-30T19:23:00.000+08:00

Sometimes being a friend means mastering the art of timing.
There is a time for silence.
A time to let go and allow people to hurl themselves into their own destiny.
And a time to prepare to pick up the pieces
when it's all over.

Doses of Sanity.

2008-10-29T19:12:00.000+08:00

1. Enjoy life. There's plenty of time to be dead.

2. Nobody really cares if you are miserable, so might as well be happy.

3. If you can't solve it, it's not a problem -- it's reality.

4. Happiness is like perfume, you can't pour it on others
without getting a few drops on yourself.

Life's Little Instructions.

2008-10-28T19:05:00.000+08:00

1. Never tell a person who's experiencing deep sorrow,
"I know how you feel." You don't.

2. Never risk what you can't afford to lose.

3. Once a year, go somewhere you've never been before.

4. Remember that the formula for great love is communication + respect.

5. When declaring you rights, don't forget your responsibilities.

6. Remember that not getting what you want is sometimes a stroke of good luck.

Stars are like Friends.

2008-10-27T19:01:00.000+08:00

Why do stars show up at night?
Actually, they don't just show up at night..
There are stars at daytime..
Ever wonder why you don't seem to notice them?
'Cause during the day, the sun is everything to you..
And only when your sun doesn't shine anymore
will you notice the thousand little stars
who were there for you all along.

One Reason.

2008-10-26T19:00:00.000+08:00

Forget about all the reasons why something may not work..
You only need to find one good reason why it will.

Just a Thought.

2008-10-25T18:58:00.000+08:00

To keep something, you must care for it.
Much more, you must understand
what kind of care it requires.

Q&A with Love.

2008-10-24T18:56:00.000+08:00

Question:
How come that the eye is the most amazing part of the human body?

Answer:
Because a severe contact with another eye can make you fall in love..

Take charge.

2008-10-23T17:39:00.000+08:00

If you have your chance now, take it.
If you want something, nothing can stop you.
Don't leave your life up to fate or destiny or whatever.
It's always your choice.
Take charge.
Do what you can now.
Do what makes you happy.
And to hell with the consequences.
If you get bitten, then you'll know it wasn't for you.
At least there won't be any regrets or what if's.
There's always a risk,
but not taking that risk is an even bigger risk.

If Love is like Rain.

2008-10-22T17:37:00.000+08:00

The nicest thing about the RAIN is that it always stops.. eventually.
If LOVE could be that easy, no one would ever get hurt
and sucked up by the pain.

Never.

2008-10-21T17:35:00.000+08:00

Never stab those you cannot kill,
and never be too sweet to those you cannot love.

A Friend Forever.

2008-10-20T17:34:00.000+08:00

One sweet thing that a person who can't love you back can offer..
Only to be your friend -- forever.

Starting Over.

2008-10-19T17:32:00.000+08:00

Starting all over again is not that bad;
for when you restart,
you get another chance to make things right..
Life does go on and it will be better tomorrow.

Distancing,

2008-10-18T17:25:00.000+08:00

Distancing is done for 2 reasons:
Either you hate the person,
or you're just too scared to fall completely for that person.

Be careful.

2008-10-17T17:19:00.000+08:00

If your foot slips,
you can always recover your balance,
but when your tongue slips,
you can never recover your words.

Mean it.

2008-10-16T16:39:00.000+08:00

A lot of things could be said within a little period of time
but what matters is how long you will really mean it.

Changes.

2008-10-15T16:33:00.000+08:00

It's funny how day by dayy nothing changes,
but when you look back,
everything is different.

Love.

2008-10-14T16:23:00.000+08:00

Love is just a word..
until you meet someone who will give you
its sweetest meaning.

One advice.

2008-10-13T13:56:00.000+08:00

When you're in pain, don't fight it..
You'll just get exhausted..
One advice:
Feel the pain, until it hurts no more.

Worst Regret.

2008-10-12T13:54:00.001+08:00

The worst regret we can have in life
is not for the wrong things we did..
But for the right things
we could have done
but we never did.

Imperfections and Mistakes.

2008-10-11T15:43:00.000+08:00

Imperfections are important,
just as mistakes are.
You only get to be good by learning from mistakes.
And you get to be real by being imperfect.

Living life.

2008-10-10T15:41:00.000+08:00

You can't leave footprints if you walk on tiptoe.
This is what living life means.
You can never get what you want
if you're too scared to get hurt.

Person.

2008-10-09T15:40:00.000+08:00

The measure of a person
is not on how he prepares everything to go right
but on how graceful he stands up and moves on
after everything goes wrong.

Things in life.

2008-10-08T15:36:00.000+08:00

There are things in life that we question a lot,
but we do not realize that sometimes,
answers come when we stop asking.

Think.

2008-10-07T15:35:00.000+08:00

If you have something you want to do in life,
don't think about the problems,
think about the ways to get it done.

Someone.

2008-10-06T15:25:00.000+08:00

Don't go for someone who always tells you how perfect you are, cause you're not.
Find someone who will tell you exactly what he thinks of you..
Someone who will tell yo how irritating and impossible you can be sometimes..
Someone who gives compliments at the right time.
Someone who will laugh at your clumsiness, but will still love you for it.
Someone who won't be afraid in telling you the truth,
cause only those who can be honest and loyal can stay up to the very end.

The best kiss.

2008-10-05T15:14:00.000+08:00

The best kiss:
is when you do it, even often, but every time it happens,
it always feels like first.
When your knees go weak because you feel the sincerity
and the 'electricity',
and the sweetest part is
when your special someone whispers 'i love you',
after the gentle 'short but sweet kiss'.

Tough Decisions.

2008-10-04T15:17:00.000+08:00

Life is all about tough decisions:
Whether to give up or to go on;
hold back or give it all;
to love or to leave.
We never really know exactly what to do
or when to do it.
Either we fail or succeed.
But 1 thing is for sure..
That we learn from our choices -- whichever way we go.
And that's what's important.

Expect the unexpected.

2008-10-03T15:11:00.000+08:00

You can't predict what's gonna happen,
but sometimes the thing you didn't expect
is what you really wanted after all.
Maybe the best thing to do
is stop trying to figure out
where you're going
and just enjoy where you're at..

It's real.

2008-10-02T15:09:00.000+08:00

Love takes effort and acceptance.
It won't always be a happy ride.
You'll cry when you're hurt,
you'll be sad when ignored..
but hold on, and always remember..
Love hurts when "it's real".

Just a reminder.

2008-10-01T15:06:00.000+08:00

Keep your optimism..
after all..
no one has ever damaged his eyesight
by looking at the BRIGHTER side of life.

Be strong.

2008-09-30T15:03:00.000+08:00

Be strong.
Remember not everything has a happy ending.
And endings doesn't mean stop,
it's just a way of telling us
that there is a new beginning ahead of us.
You should always be ready for the unpredictable,
expect the unexpected.
It's easy to fall but hard to get up.
Once you're up and back on track,
you will be a better person.
That's the way of life
you don't just live it,
you learn from it.

Your special someone is not your World.

2008-09-29T15:00:00.000+08:00

When you love someone, spare a little love for yourself.
Enjoy other things around you
and don't ever let your world REVOLVE around him/her.

In denial of happiness.

2008-09-28T14:57:00.001+08:00

Why is that sometimes,
when we love someone..
we don't show it?
we don't let that special someone feel it?
is it because of our pride?
self-denial?
fear of rejection?
or is it because of the simple fact that
we tend to deny ourselves
of the things that make us happy.
Just to play safe..

Cover up.

2008-09-27T14:55:00.000+08:00

Band-aids are like smiles;
they can cover up the pain,
but deep down inside..
it still hurts.

:)

2008-09-26T14:53:00.000+08:00

You will only see what's wrong in your life
when someone else comes along
and makes you realize
what you've been missing.

Don't let go.

2008-09-25T14:47:00.000+08:00

When someone hugs you,
never be the first to let go..
you'll never know,
it could be the last.

Options for loving.

2008-09-24T14:50:00.000+08:00

It's amazing how you continue loving someone you couldn't have.
Maybe because trying to stay away would hurt
so you might as well take the risk.
'Cause either way, you'd get hurt anyway..

Just plain cute.

2008-09-23T14:44:00.000+08:00

You know what's cute?
It's when you're sad, then he smiles at you
and suddenly you just feel fine.

Think first.

2008-09-22T14:37:00.000+08:00

One of life's mysterious lessons:
"If you don't want to get involved,
never comfort a fragile heart.
Love is easily mistaken for sympathy & empathy.."

Question.

2008-09-21T14:34:00.003+08:00

Pressure is not naturally there..
it is created when you question your own ability.
But when you know what you can do,
there is never a question.

Are you happy?

2008-09-21T08:39:00.000+08:00

How would you know if you're happy?
It's when you're alone yet you don't feel lonely or incomplete.
It's when everything is wrong yet you find simple reasons to smile.
It's when you wake up every morning without any regret from yesterday.

Friends.

2008-09-20T21:03:00.000+08:00

No matter how serious life gets,
you will constantly need the company of people
who you can completely be stupid with.

Cross the line.

2008-09-19T21:01:00.000+08:00

It always feels better to cross the line
and suffer the consequences
than to stare at the line
for the rest of your life.

Take chances.

2008-09-18T20:58:00.000+08:00

Don't be afraid to take chances
even if it might get you hurt
just be strong and take it
'cause you might miss
that single chance that would change your life
and make you really happy..

Greatest Torture.

2008-09-17T20:53:00.000+08:00

Probably, the greatest torture
you could ever do to your heart
is to let somebody go..
at the time you are loving the person the most.

Love and death.

2008-09-16T20:51:00.001+08:00

Love and death are two uninvited guests.
Nobody knows when they come,
but both do the same work..
One takes the "Heart"
and the other
takes the "Beat".

Opportunity.

2008-09-15T08:45:00.000+08:00

People are given the opportunity
to meet the love of their lives..
some unexpected,
some through years of friendship,
some by chance,
some in an instant..
only a few have the foresight
to see beyond imperfections
and take it wholeheartedly..
when love is present..
it won't require how you look like,
how you dress,
how you are perceived
but on what you become
when that person is around..
learn to appreciate the people around you
because you might lose a person
who cares for you the most.

Accept the fact.

2008-09-14T20:37:00.001+08:00

Sometimes, you just have to accept
the fact that some people
are going to stay in your heart forever,
even if you aren't in theirs.

Enjoy the memories.

2008-09-13T21:01:00.000+08:00

If you can't sleep, don't force yourself to.
Enjoy the things that you remember
while you lay awake on your bed.
Enjoy the memories,
because sometimes,
they're all you've got.

Right.

2008-09-12T20:59:00.001+08:00

You will know you made the right decision
when you pick the harder choice
and your heart is at peace.
Think about it.

Love.

2008-09-11T20:56:00.002+08:00

If you love someone,
you better prove it..
because if you don't,
they might not believe it..
"for love is not a noun to be defined
but a verb to be acted upon".

Spend time with friends.

2008-09-07T20:39:00.000+08:00

No matter how crazy and funny the scenes around you..
It is useless without the people you want to laugh with.

Meant for you.

2008-09-06T20:37:00.000+08:00

Things will fall into place
if they are meant for you
in the first place.

Just a thought.

2008-09-05T20:36:00.000+08:00

Believe it or not,
some of the best things in life
are actually mistakes.
It's how you handle them
that makes having them worthwhile.

Best moments.

2008-09-04T08:31:00.000+08:00

Closeness of friendship doesn't need every minute conversation
as long as you find time to smile
remembering crazy moments together..
it's the closest thing ever!

A Strong Person.

2008-09-03T08:29:00.000+08:00

A strong person isn't the one who doesn't cry..
but the one who knows how to be quiet
and shed a tear for a moment
and then picks up his sword..
and fight again.

Definite Pain.

2008-09-02T20:21:00.000+08:00

It has never been a question of who forgets..
but sometimes..
there's a definite pain
on being the one who remembers everything.

Life.

2008-09-01T08:54:00.000+08:00

Never tell yourself, "I am tired!".
Because the more you accept that thought,
the more exhausted you'll become.
Life is a matter of perspective,
either you complain because roses have thorns
or you rejoice because thorns have roses.
It all depends on how you look at it.

Joke and Truth.

2008-08-31T10:33:00.000+08:00

A joke and a truth..
are not mutually exclusive..
sometimes,
the best jokes are true..
and the best truths,
are jokes.

Hope.

2008-08-30T10:31:00.000+08:00

It is wiser not to expect, but to hope,
for in expecting you ask for disappointment,
whereas in hoping, you invite surprise.

Destiny.

2008-08-29T10:30:00.000+08:00

Destiny is something you've invented
because you can't stand the fact
that everything that happens
is the result of your choice.

Choose to be happy.

2008-08-28T10:27:00.000+08:00

How we deal with life is really a matter of personal choice.
So choose to be happy.
Find joy in the simplest things
and see beauty in each person you meet.
When times are difficult,
remind yourself that no pain
comes to you without a purpose.

There's someone.

2008-08-27T10:23:00.000+08:00

Don't hold on because you think
there will be no one else..
There will ALWAYS be someone else..
You've got to believe you're worth
more than being repeatedly hurt by someone
who doesn't really care..
Always believe that someone will see what you're really worth..
and..
treat the way you should be treated..

I need you.

2008-08-26T10:21:00.000+08:00

Isn't it nice to hear when someone asks you to stay with them?
Because sometimes
it's never wrong to
admit you need someone to be happy.

Insecurity.

2008-08-25T10:19:00.002+08:00

Insecurity is the reason why back fighters was born.
They live like a winner,
but ends up as a loser.

Interesting fact.

2008-08-24T10:29:00.000+08:00

You cannot stop others to talk negatively against you..
but one day, you can help them
eat what they have said
and see them choke to death.

Falling down.

2008-08-23T10:27:00.000+08:00

Falling down doesn't make a person a failure,
but staying down does.
So always remember that
no one is perfect
and when you fall so hard..
just bounce back higher.

Live, laugh and love.

2008-08-22T10:25:00.000+08:00

Keep in mind that
there will always be reasons
to BECOME sad
but there will never be reasons
to STAY sad.
Life itself is already dramatic.
So just live, laugh and love.

Keep dreaming, keep loving.

2008-08-21T10:19:00.000+08:00

Someday, we'll forget the pains,
who caused the tears and why we cried..
We would finally realize
that the secret of being free
is not revenge
but letting things unfold in their own ways
and that life is simply a blank book.
After all, what matters is not the first but the last chapter
which shows how well we ran the race.
So smile, laugh, forgive, believe and love
over and over again.
Keep dreaming, keep loving.

Fulfillment.

2008-08-20T10:18:00.000+08:00

Fulfillment doesn't merely mean
achieving your highest dreams in life,
but also living a life
that has made the lives of others
worth living.

Lesson in Life.

2008-08-19T10:14:00.000+08:00

Sometimes, it's not a enough that a lesson
is explained to you.
Sometimes, you have to go through the experience
and make a mistake or two
before you learn what life is trying to teach you..

Forget it.

2008-08-18T10:09:00.000+08:00

If you are trying to show off for people at the top,
forget it
They will look down on you anyhow.
And if you are trying to show off for people at the bottom,
forget it.
They will only envy you.
Status will only get you nowhere.
Only an open heart will allow you
to float equally between everyone.

School of love.

2008-08-17T10:03:00.001+08:00

Falling in love is like falling asleep
while the classes are going on
you were not supposed to..
but you did.

Permanent Fact.

2008-08-16T06:17:00.000+08:00

At times, you're sad about what's going on in your life.
Just remember one permanent fact:
Everything changes.
Tomorrow might be different.

Always a Kid.

2008-08-15T09:11:00.000+08:00

No matter how we try to be mature..
we will always be a kid
when we all got hurt and cry.

Reality bites.

2008-08-14T07:07:00.000+08:00

We can pretend to be brave to conceal our fears..
We can pretend to be smart to conceal our insecurities..
We can pretend to be strong to conceal our weaknesses..
We can pretend to be happy to conceal our longings..
But no matter how much we pretend to conceal our negativities,
we will always be pierced by reality..
Maybe that's what life is all about.
Reality bites but we can never bite it back.

Change in you and me.

2008-08-13T07:05:00.000+08:00

When you realize how hard it is to change yourself..
you begin to understand
what little chances you have
of changing others.

Life is a Gift.

2008-08-12T09:03:00.000+08:00

Whatever happens to your day,
just relax and manage to smile..
because LIFE is not a problem to be solved,
but a GIFT to be enjoyed.

Always and Forever.

2008-08-11T06:47:00.000+08:00

The only place where you can stay alive forever
is right inside the heart of
someone who loves you.

Eyes Wide Open.

2008-08-10T19:45:00.000+08:00

Every time you wish something,
keep your eyes wide open,
focus and know exactly what you want..
No one hits the target with eyes closed.

Don't.

2008-08-09T21:37:00.002+08:00

Don't give up if you still want to try.
Don't wipe your tears if you still want to cry.
Don't settle for an answer if you still want to know.
And..
Don't say you don't like him
if you won't let him go.

Math.

2008-08-08T09:30:00.000+08:00

One important lesson in math
that he can apply to our daily lives..
...
be careful with the
"signs".

Just maybe...

2008-08-07T21:27:00.001+08:00

Just when you thought
that you're not happy anymore,
always remember that maybe,
just maybe..
Someone is happy enough
to have you around.

Strength of Character.

2008-08-05T05:27:00.000+08:00

The strength of character is not just calculated
by how well we manage to carry some sizable
load under challenging conditions,
but is perhaps better measured
by our ability to remain kind and light-spirited,
even when we're sure that
we can't bear the weight of one more ounce of life.